Monday, January 6, 2014

A Better Me

Hi!! I hope you all had a great and relaxing weekend! 

Today's topic for the Inspire Me Blog Challenge: What changes were made in 2013 to better yourself, or what changes will you make in 2014 to better yourself

As I mentioned on my New Year Resolutions post, I am a worrywart. I worry what people may say, what my family might think, any type of confrontation that could happen in a certain situation, and the list goes on and on. I worry about every kind of bad scenario that could possibly happen. I need to learn to stop caring what people think or what they might say. 

My boyfriend tells me all the time "don't worry about it." How can I not??? I don't want to disappoint anyone or say the wrong things. I have been this way ever since I can remember. Even this blog worries me but as I mentioned, I'm trying to step out of this comfort zone and say whatever the hell I want to say and not care what people may think or say. 

I pray every night that people are nice, not just to me but to each other. I see other bloggers get scrutinized for the simplest things that they may say or do and I commend them for keeping their heads up and moving on. Me - I don't do that. I would dwell on that one naysayer for days and days and wonder what the hell I did wrong to piss them off. So this year, I'm not gonna give two shits about what people say and just do whatever and say whatever I want. Not just on this blog but in every day life, including the gym, work, school, and new people I may meet. I know I won't be able to please everyone so why the hell do I worry. 

What kind of changes are you making this year? I'd love to hear! 

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1 comment:

  1. 2013 was definitely the year that I was like, "Who DOES care?" and that was so freeing!